Life with Grandparents-Part 2

Bhagalpur, by itself, is quite big a city. To be precise, its a district. But physically its more or less a small town still struggling to come to terms with the modern life style. Before I make grander statements about the city, I must admit that whatever i am saying is based on the Bhagalpur that i saw more than ten years back. People change with times. Cities change quicker.
Getting back to Bhagalpur, it was a sleepy city back then. My grandparents lived in the central (and hence the affluent) part of the city which meant that they were amongst the most respected people of the city. Although the house was a single storey building, it was spread on a wide tract of L-shaped land. The house was actually broken into two parts which had been constructed at different points in time. The older slightly dilapidated part had three very simple rooms and a kitchen cum store. The newer building had another three rooms which were aesthetically designed. The Gothic windows were such that the sunlight streamed into the rooms very early making it virtually impossible to sleep beyond 7 in the morning. This ensured that I woke up pretty early in the morning and practically followed my grandmother wherever she went. Consequently i made friends with almost all the families in that small ghettoed neighborhood.
During those days, there were two things i almost always looked forward to in Bhagalpur - the mangoes and the monkeys . Mangoes of Bhagalpur are famous world over and are considered 'export quality'. I can still remember how i would skip my meals so that i could gorge on the mangoes. Honestly, these were and are some of the best mangoes that i have ever eaten. I was always in awe of the monkeys because living in cities meant that i could only see them in the zoos. The monkeys of Bhagalpur were quite huge compared to the monkeys that i saw in the zoos. Frankly speaking, i was shit scared of going anywhere near them. My fear was born on a solid premise though. I hardly remember anything about that incident but i am told that once when i was small, i had been chased by one such monkey for the apples that i was carrying in my hand. Not only did i fall down and get bruised, the monkey also decamped with the entire booty of apples. Since then i have been in mortal fear of all kinds of monkeys. But watching them from a distance always was pure fun. I used to sit patiently on the terrace waiting for the monkeys to make an appearance. Sooner or later, they obliged.
The most remarkable feature about living in Bhagalpur was that the people seemed to lead a contented life. Even if someone was filthy rich, there never was any ostentatious display of wealth. True, that the rich people inhibited colonies that were far removed from the poor, but they never flaunted their wealth. Life invariably began early in the morning and by around 9 pm in the night, the last few shops would also have downed their shutters. Schools were few and most of them were government owned. Barring a couple of decent schools, most of the schools were the saintly-types that are mushrooming with clockwork regularity in every small town and city these days (eg St. Gandhi). Medical and Healthcare facilities were in shambles. For even small complications, people had to be rushed to the either Delhi, Calcutta or Patna. But hardly did anyone cringe. They treated this as an opportunity to visit for-what-were-to-them an el dorado. All kinds of festivals were celebrated with a lot of pomp and gaiety. The mere mention of Holi was good enough to send shivers down the spine. This was Holi of the roughest kind and anyone who joined in was certain to return home bruised and bleeding. Dussehra was an exciting affair as everyone looked forward to attending the 'mela' which was a kind of confluence for performers, acrobats, traders, artisans, magicians from the innumerable villages that surrounded the city. Plus, one could always look forward to the canopies or the 'pandals' that were specially constructed as a temporary home for Goddess Durga. They were constructed to resemble historic monuments like Taj Mahal, Red Fort and even the Eiffel Tower.
Proximity to the Ganges meant that a trip on the boat was always on cards. What fun it always turned out to be! The sad part was that this trip always betokened the end of our stay at Bhagalpur. Within a couple of days we would be on our way back to our city home; which at different points of time would be Jamshedpur, Calcutta , Delhi or Nepal depending on where dad's posting was . And there always would be that lump in the throat :)

So Far Away (Please don't go by the title )

First things first : My comp is back in business after a lay off period of more than a month. This affords me the opportunity to give some much needed attention to my dear blog. And i start off with the tagging business. I had been tagged and it was high time i got rid of the burden of that tag :D
The tag is one of the more interesting tags that i have come across. Best part is that you don't have to think a lot about what to write :)
The rather simple rules are
1. Put your mp3 player on shuffle
2.For each question, press the next button to get your answer
3. You must write the name of the song, no matter what

IF SOMEONE SAYS “IS THIS OKAY?” YOU SAY?
Have you seen the saucers- Jefferson Airplane (UFO connect, eh? )

WHAT WOULD BEST DESCRIBE YOUR PERSONALITY?
When I am gone - 3 Doors Down (So very true :P )

WHAT DO YOU LIKE IN A GUY/GIRL?
Peaceful Easy Feeling - Eagles (Don't think i am asking for too much, am I?)

HOW DO YOU FEEL TODAY?
Wonderwall - Oasis(hehe)


WHAT IS YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE?
Summer's gone -Placebo ( Have i already outlived my years on earth :-?)

WHAT IS YOUR MOTTO?
Somewhere they can't find me -Simon and Garfunkel (I have always shunned well deserved fame :P)

WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOU?
My Friend, My friend -Phish (This is incredibly spooky and i have started to enjoy it)

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR PARENTS?
Lightbulb Sun - Porcupine Tree (Good son, God son!)

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN?
Karma Police - Radiohead (Now veering towards spiritualism)

WHAT IS 2+2?
Simple Man -Lynrrd Skynrrd (quite a simple question)

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR BEST FRIEND?
Lend me your comb - Beatles (Sharing everything:D )

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
Torture Me - RHCP (is it the person i like or dislike ?)

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE STORY?
Morning Glory-Oasis (This is the best answer so far ;) )

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?
Hate to say i told you so - The Hives (The kind your mom warned you about, huh?

WHAT DO YOU THINK WHEN YOU SEE THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
Born to run - Bruce Springsteen (Can anyone decipher that for me? )

WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS THINK OF YOU?
No woman, No cry- Bob Marley (Parents are sympathizers, after all :( )

WHAT WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING?
Voodoo Child - Jimi Hendrix :))

WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL?
House of the rising sun - Animals (Will my death be that tragic? )

WHAT IS YOUR HOBBY/INTEREST?
Faceless Man - Creed (Hobbyless man, u mean? )

WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST SECRET?
Breakfast at Tiffany's - Deep Blue Something (My claim to fame-yay!! )

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR FRIENDS?
Stormbringer - Deep Purple (Storm in a tea cup :D )

WHAT SHOULD YOU POST THIS AS?
So Far Away- Dire Straits (I don't quite like the title of the post, but whatever)

I won't tag anybody and risk being damned for the rest of my life. Believe me, people can become quite vindictive when it comes down to tagging. So i would leave it to the reader to decide whether he would take up the challenge or not :P